Thursday, 25 July 2013

Does money bring happiness?

          Money is a key to happiness. Does money bring us happiness? That is the universal question. People who try to answer this question usually fall into two categories. Some say “yes” and some say “no”. The “yes” crowd, comprise of those who usually have something to sell. The “no” crowd usually comprised of those who try to convince other people and themselves that you do not need money to be happy. But unfortunately, we need money to make us happy in our daily life and we need money most of the time!

          How does money bring us happiness? Firstly, money bring happiness in our daily life need such as food, clothes, medicine and also shelter. We need food to grow. Besides that, we need clothes to keep us warm, we need to have medicine when we are sick and we need shelter to have a place to rest. How we can get those things without money? Won’t you feel happy when you don’t have worry about your daily needs? So, money does bring happiness to our daily life.

          Besides, money can bring us health and happiness. We can have balance diet that includes all the essential nutrients for good health in appropriate amounts and get enough vitamins such as vitamin A, C ,E from a variety of foods such as eggs, milk, vegetables and fruits to maintain our health. So that we will have a healthy body. Even when we are sick, we can have better medical cares, professional treatment for illness or injury if we have money. Health is important in our life. We need money to stay healthy. You cannot be happy if you are not healthy. So, money does bring happiness. When it is possible to get better medical cares and we do not need to worry about our health. We can be happy.

          Furthermore, with money, we can study at better school or college. And we do not need to worry about our school fees. We can pay for our fees, transportation and we are able to go for tuition if we need to. Also, we will have a chance to study in a better place. When we study in a better place, we will get a better qualification and a good job and earn more money. How happy we will be to be able to study in a better school, university and getting good result and enabling us to get a good job.

          Therefore, to raise a family we need money. Imagine how happy you are living in a big and beautiful mansion near the sea and is the owner of fast and luxurious car, like Ferrari, BMW. And you have money to take care of your parents by buying them health food and something that they need and want. Hence, you will be to make them happy. You do not to worry about doing housework when you have money because you can employ more house maid to do all the housework for you and your parents. Living a free and comfortable life is happiness.

          Lastly, money also can bring us happiness to oneself and other people who need helps. We will be able to help those people who need money. We can buy gifts and presents to them. This will make them happy. The smile on their faces will bring us happiness. We can donate some of our money to charity to help those poor people too. We will feel happy when we know that we can help others who are in need. The someone that receive our helps will be happy. Giving is better than receiving.

           In conclusion, if you were to write a list of the things in life that annoy and bother you,I can safety say that money would be able to solve a great deal of them. So, money is needed in  our life and it does bring happiness. 




***P.s. it's just some opinion about money is the key to happiness,but it doesn't mean that money bring happiness always and there's really do have something that we can't buy with our money no matter how much we spend,etc family,time,love,true friend.***

"All the things have their advantages n disadvantages,
It's based on how we use it,
n how we see it,
if we do use something right,
of course,it'll bring us benefits n also happiness"

Thursday, 31 January 2013

平凡的幸福

          从前,在我眼里看到的世界...是黑白的,并不是充满色彩的,在我眼里,就只有黑与白,我有的,不是快乐,而是孤单、束搏着我的悲伤感。对我来说,“快乐”是多么的抽象!五彩缤纷的世界是多么的虚伪。

          伤感的颜色,真的能掩盖色彩?心染上了黑白色,渐渐失去原本温暖的彩色......一遍又一遍的为它彩上颜色,红、橙、黄、绿、蓝、靛、紫......是的,是彩虹希望的颜色!但是不久,上的色彩,就像是雨后的彩虹的一样,渐渐消失,最后消失在天穹里。

          我很自卑,我总是怀疑自己不够好,总是认为只有自己一个人,陪着我的也只有光芒下的影子,而我,是生活上的影子。我是生活在光芒下的影子,不管怎么努力,就只是个衬托耀眼光芒的影子。起码,我是那么认为的......这样的我,总是活在憧憬和遗憾下。

          随着年龄的成长,懂得越来越多,问题也一个,一个的找上我,被压到喘不过气的感觉,很难受,失去的越来越多,挑战也随之而来......或许那些问题不存在,只是我自己找上了问题?我不知道,但是,我在找一个答案,一个没有问题的答案,寻寻觅觅,我找不到我的答案......

          经历过了很多事情,克服了很多的挑战,我才渐渐明白,我拥有的,不是五彩缤纷精彩生活,而是平凡的幸福,一直以来,我把自己的心用黑白蒙蔽了,从这世界逃避了。或许曾经我埋怨过生活的不平,但是,拥有了平凡幸福的我,有什么资格埋怨呢?我埋怨平凡,但是我忘记了,对于有些人来说,“平凡的生活”是多么的遥不可及,所以,我从我的无知和贪婪中清醒了。

          现在我可以确定的说,“是的,我是幸福的!我拥有平凡的幸福,所以我开心,我珍惜。”对啊,我是幸福的,我拥有什么平凡呢?我有心灵之窗,我可以享受着我眼前看到的一切,我可以看到蔚蓝的天空,看到七色的彩虹,我可以因被眼前看到的事物流泪,我可以用眼睛记录着眼前所看到的点点滴滴......

          我可以享受雨从天空落到地面的声音,当我心情不好时,我可以很安心的听着我爱的歌曲,让旋律愈治我的心,在别人需要听众,我能静静的聆听;我可以用手触碰事物,当下雨时,我触碰得到雨,我可以用手记下所有的事情,我也能用手,在别人有难时,伸出援手,我也能拥抱我在乎的人......

          我有臊子,有口,我可以很自由的哼着自己喜爱的歌曲,当心情不好时,我有机会对着天空大喊,我也能用口,让爱我、关心我的人知道,我是多么的谢谢他们!多么开心,因为有他们的陪伴。

          我有家,有父母,我可以不用担心,累的时候该往哪里去,下一秒,我是不是会失去它或下一秒,我会无家可归,觉得疲倦时,可以安心的睡上一觉......我还能尽孝道,报答父母一直以来的牺牲,一直以来的付出,一直以来的照顾、关心......在我伤心时,还有可以倾诉的对象,担心我的人,我觉得很幸福!

          或许这些听起来一点也不起眼,但是这的确是我拥有的幸福,或许对我们来说不起眼的事物,对于一些人来说是多么的遥不可及,是他们一辈子都在追求的,所以,拥有这些的我,还有什么资格抱怨呢?我应该更加珍惜我所拥有的一切!

          我没有漂亮的脸蛋,魔鬼的身材,聪明的脑袋......但是我有比那些来得更珍贵的东西,我有健康、有生命、有思想、有感觉、有一颗想珍惜点点滴滴的心。现在的我,想通了,我是幸福的!我会更加的珍惜一切,抛弃无知、抛弃贪婪、抛弃不满,为心留下一块净土......

Sunday, 27 January 2013

We all have dream,
we always want 2 find the best things in life,
then,we start don't cherish what we have,
but we 4get 1 thing,
the best things in life are free~
smile,is the best things in life,
don't u think smile is precious n beautiful??
family n friends,
appreciate them be4 u losing them,
isn't they r the best things in the world??
when u sad,they r by ur side,
when u happy,they r happier than u,
when u need them,they always be there 4 u...
4 me,
sleep is also the best things in life,
cause i like sleeping,
how great it is when u still have time 2 relax??
that is the time we can rest our mind,
relax ourselves...
remember those good memories,
they r precious,
even maybe it had past,
don't be sad,
at least u have them once...
love with ur heart,
see with ur heart,
feel all things with ur heart,
n u'll know,
life is full of beauty,
life is full of best things which is free
so,love the 1 u care,
hug them with grateful,
smiles 4 them...

"Never regret the past,
Always hope to the future,
cherish every moment you have,
cause when u lost them,
u won't have time 2 regret,
so,cherish be4 u lost <3"